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Saturday, July 4, 2015

The Summer Picnic

Sitting around the fire ring this evening, my mind wandered back…45 years ago, to a meadow up the old farm lane. There, once each year in the heat of summer, we had a wiener roast of (in a child’s mind) epic proportions.
     I don’t remember everyone who was invited, just that it was the second most exciting event the whole summer long–the first being when the local fireman’s carnival came to town.
     I think it might have been a celebration of the haymaking season.  Our feet were tough as leather by the time the party neared, after running barefoot since school let out--save for Sunday mornings, and walking through freshly-mown hay-fields, shoeless.  We probably could have originated the ‘walking on hot coals motivational revolution or, at the very least, had side jobs in the circus walking on broken glass.
     The wiener roast was held in a meadow, as I  already wrote, but that was to draw a picture in your mind of something lovely, like a country garden beside a stream…daisies blooming…birds singing…but, reality here <jerking hard> it was more properly known as a cow pasture.  And the stream that flowed through it was the “crick” where we caught minnows and crayfish.  And…when we were getting it ready for the wiener roast, we had to be careful of the cow patties…but there was that handy crick in which to wash our leather skin, bare  feet.
     Dad always referred to it as ‘up the hollow” because it was almost a third of the way out the half-mile-long, old farm lane.  He loved that piece of ground.  It was almost level, which probably made it difficult for all of us to walk on. You know, having been raised in the “hollow” on the steep hillside, we all had one leg longer than the other so we could stand straight. Okay, that was a lie…but I remind you, my first writing love is fiction <wink>.
     So, there I was, a little girl, with the second best event of the summer approaching, and dreaming of a galvanized washtub full of ice and ACME brand soda pop.  And all would be good as long as that can-and-bottle-opener did not disappear from its place next to the tub.  For you youngsters, pop top cans had not been invented.
     It just occurred to me that I AM getting old. I have lived long enough to remember pre-poptop cans, AND to be appreciative of a party that could be attended in bare feet ;-)
     The morning of the big day arrived, and dad went out, climbed on his Farmall H, and went and found a big old tree that had fallen. After sawing it into what looked like car-sized pieces <--practicing my fish stories, chained it to the tractor and dragged it to the middle of the pasture field.
     Mom was busy making macaroni salad–she put pineapples in hers (I didn’t really like it but that didn’t matter. ACME pop could wash down anything and make it taste swell) and baked beans, and  cupcakes and a cake or two.  And there were a couple five-pound boxes of wieners from the local packhouse.       Hmmm…what else?  Bags (plural) of marshmallows.
     Oh, and Hallelujah! There was a reason that I prayed; sometimes the prayers were answered.  Potato chips!  There would be a couple of bags of them…ACME brand too, and I think the pop was designed to wash them down perfectly.  Pretzels… I cannot recall anything else.  Just the important things…all the things that went well with ACME brand pop. Oh, and bless youthful ignorance…I had NO idea that it was not called “pop” the world over.  All I can say is when I found out that other people called it soda, I really had to doubt how smart the rest of the world was. Soda was that stuff that you put in cakes and cookies so they didn’t bake flat. Anyone knew that!
     We younger kids were just busy getting in everyone’s way, trying to help. Anything we could do to expedite the pop getting into the tub of ice.
     The time came to get everything up the lane.  Dad pulled the hay wagon with the “H”, to the lane below the house, and we all started carrying things down to what would be the transportation and the table.  And I recall excitement that mom had splurged and bought those candles, red, green, yellow, with the white netting over the outside. She told us they were to keep away the bugs.  There were straw bales on the wagon–those, with boards laid between them, would act as benches.
So we went, the tractor chugging up the lane, its motor keeping rhythm with my pounding heart. Second best day of the year.
     We kids were sent to find “wiener sticks”, and we knew not to get wild cherry. We looked for maple.  And we had to get lots, because sometimes the sticks ended up being part of the fire. Not intentionally, of course, but city people didn’t understand the finer art of roasting a marshmallow, blue flames shooting from its surface, without burning the stick too. It was a shortcoming that farmers just accepted, and instead of giving a wiener stick lesson, realized it was just a whole lot easier to cut down extra sticks.
     When we came back from our stick foray, the pop was on ice. I marvelled at the colors of the cans, red cola, brown root beer, dark red black-cherry, green lemon lime, orange (duh) orange and purple grape. This event was second only to Christmas morning for sheer beauty before my eyes.
      And we drank.  Without being aware, I am sure that I raised my can to heaven and toasted all that was good in the world (and that was…well…pretty much everything) and I toasted summer, and bare feet, and wieners cooked on a stick, and flaming marshmallows.  We played in the crick, and we ran and chased, playing “it” tag with any kids who'd come to visit.  Looking back, they were probably quite overwhelmed by us farmkids. Maybe even frightened,  I mean, kids who ran through cowpatties and never skipped a beat on their way to the crick to wash their feet.
     The black-cherry pop was the first to vanish.  Then the orange and the lemon lime.  And so it went, I could have told the time by the flavors of pop left in the tub. At the end of the day there was only root beer left…I reckon because we made our own homemade root beer, letting it brew in the sun.  It was not so special to us.
     Ah…and then evening came, and dad built up the fire, big, huge in fact, and we toasted marshmallows. Lots of marshmallows. And for those whom the pop had not given a belly ache, the marshmallows caught up with.  I leaned back and watched the flames, the fireflies, the sparks flying up in the air each time the wood was adjusted.  It was our fireworks.
     Out beyond where the flames illuminated, silent vestiges of the past haunted the darkening woods and fields (there were ghosts out there). But here, by the firelight, my once a year pop binge accomplished, all was right with the world.
     When the last visitor from town pulled away, their tailights illuminating the dust behind them with a strange reddish glow, we cleaned up everything, packed it onto the haywagon, and headed back down the lane.
      My wish for you all, this day of fireworks and picnics, fourth of July, 2015, is that you appreciate the simple things in life, like family and friends, a can of “pop” to drink, fireflies, and if you run into an unexpected cowpattie, a “crick” nearby to wash your feet in.  Happy fourth!

12 comments:

  1. That was delightful reading Teresa and so reminded me of home and that era of time, tho we are from different areas of the US.. I was born and lived in North Ga... most of my younger life and a portion of my adult'', also' I now live further South, Fla, However,
    Seems life in those days were pretty much the same everywhere, Oh how happy I was able to have that portion and passed it down to my sons and their sons.,
    Thank.-_you so Much for sharing, I hope your 4th today was as loving and carefree as in the past,,,, Oh, and Yes, we had our own crick too',,,,, smiling, thks for the memories, happy ones' ,,,,,Huggs :)

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    1. ;-) Hi, Zhak! I guess it doesn't matter where you grow up, kids really are all the same, huh?

      North GA is so pretty. I love Stone Mountain. It's gorgeous. And there's a restaurant called the Blue Willow Inn that's on my bucket list. :-)

      Thanks so much, my friend, for visiting and giving it a read. :-)[

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  2. Teresa, loved, loved, loved your meanderings of the 2nd greatest summer event. Brings back memories of those "pops". the bonfires, the marshmallows and the greatest event of all, "The great Saxonburg carnival. How fast time has gone by. Those days of innocence and being a bare-footed child. Other than the carnival my favorite time was when the blackberries ripened. (coincidentally at the same time of the carnival) We gorged ourselves daily for a few weeks on sun ripened berries and occasionally ate a stinkbug. Never will forget that taste. Yuck! Keep writing my dear friend. I never tire of your tales. Much love to you!

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    1. lol, yeah, the carnival was HUGE in our minds. Mom and Dad scrounged 20 bucks. They dropped all 8 of us off by the firehall. It was a dollar for each of us to ride all day. Then we each got a dollar for games. My older sisters had to divide up the other 4 dollars among us for snow cones and cotton candy. Great memories. One year, we were ONE NUMBER off on the ticket number to win a new bicycle. Imagine that. 8 of us--we'd have ridden the tires off of it. Oh well. It was exciting until they called the very last number. ;-)
      Thank you for visiting and leaving a comment full of happy yesterdays. :-)

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  3. What wonderful memories, Teresa. I have similar fond memories of the once-a-year summer beach parties friends from our church used to have. Loads of people making a huge village of windbreaks on the sand. Sandwiches (full of sand). Swimming, sandcastles, and games of cricket. Long live simple pleasures.

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    1. Just your brief recollection of summers of your youth made me smile, Ian! Thank you for the smile. :-)

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  4. Much the same except we had "cool aide" instead of pop. I think the Watkins salesman truck brought concentrate. Our creek had hilly banks, trees and blackberries when I was young, before the county flattened everything. It was the place where you brought a lunch to the men working in the field and sat for a while with them. Your cowpatties reminded me of trekking in Nepal where they collected the cowpatties and used them to paint their houses or burn in the fire. I have forgotten the purpose of all that. And back to childhood, every child had a tiny American flag to wave...sometimes a parade of them across the picnic area.

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    1. That's really interesting about Nepal, Carol!

      We didn't have the Watkins guy. I think our guy was the Raleigh man. My mom didn't get a lot, but she'd get lemon meringue pie pudding mix, and vanilla extract. That was when most everything was grown on the farm. In retrospect, it's bittersweet that we started shopping at a grocery store on a regular basis. :-)

      I think we have a lot of similarities in our childhoods.

      Thank you, my friend, for taking the time to visit and to read. :-)

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  5. What a lovely post. And what wonderful memories. thanks for this sweet share.

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    1. You are so welcome, Elizabeth. And thank you for visiting, and your kind comment!

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